Live life like a Ship. A Ship adjusts its sail according to the wind. A Ship may not always travel in a straight line. Still, it will generally go in an approximate direction to its destination. Sometimes the winds and waves are so high that you may have to dock in an unplanned shore.
In our me me me society, phrases like within me, I deserve, I want, my opinion, creates a lot of pressure on us. Let's face it, you do disappoint yourself from time to time with the difference being you are very forgiving of your flaws.
I woke today with a weird thought of the term - "A Millionaire". What qualifies a millionaire? Is it the amount of money in his bank account, or is it something else? Is it the size of his Real Estate?